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Dressing the (Smaller)Man

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13 September, 2012

As important as proportions and fit are for the average man, their value is amplified for a shorter guy. If you’re short, the rest of your proportions are usually a bit smaller as well. This means the already-too-large off-the-rack clothing that drowns most men will completely obliterate you. Check out this shot from GQ.

 The suit above is about three sizes too big, the pants are way too long, the shoulders are too wide, the sleeves are large. This kid just looks awful. There is an added downside to not dressing well for shorter guys in that it makes you look like a child. The image above makes me think of a 16-year-old boy on the way to his first job interview. He didn’t have a suit of his own so he borrowed his dad’s.  No man or woman will be able to take you seriously with ill-fitting and child-image-inducing clothing.

Thankfully, there are certain rules and guidelines that apply specifically to smaller men.

  • The first thing you need to do is embrace the fact that you’re smaller. Our egos don’t like doing this as it makes us feel inadequate but you’re only going to look smaller by not embracing your actual size. If you’re 5′ 8″ or shorter you should be sizing down your suits and jackets to a Short.
  • Next is having everything either custom-made or tailored to fit you like a glove. This means having the trousers and jacket sleeves brought in to follow the contours of your body. You will want to have your dress shirts tailored the same and even your casual shirts if you can’t find something that fits you correctly. Any excess fabric will exaggerate your stature so you want to get rid of it. That same excess-fabric effect is also why smaller men should always stick with flat-front pants instead of pleated trousers.
  • Tailoring your clothing is about more than just the bulk of the fabric. It also applies to the length proportions. You will want to have your jackets altered to show a good amount of sleeve cuff. This will visually elongate your arms and make you appear taller. Same goes for having your pants tailored to have a very slight break or no break at all. By making it look like your legs are poking out of your pants, your legs appear longer and will help you look taller and larger overall.
  • Stick with two-button jackets. A 3/2 roll or a three-button suit will close up too much of your chest and make you appear smaller. For this same reason, your jackets should have a lower button stance.
  • Wearing peak lapels draws the eyes up and outwards. This will give you more visual height and make your shoulders appear larger.
  • Having your jacket pockets angled will also draw the viewers eyes upwards to make you appear taller and help frame your face.
  • Proportion everything down. Smaller men need narrower lapels, slim ties, small shirt collars, even a stubbier tie bar. By sizing everything down, your body appears proportionate with your clothing.

Take a look at the after picture once GQ was done helping this same guy dress according to his build.

 

Other than throwing on a peak lapel, the men at GQ did everything else on the list to help this guy look better. He now looks like he means business.

The last thing you should focus on if you’re a smaller guy is the size and type of your patterns. Just like excessive fabric, patterns that are too large will accentuate the slightness of your stature. Instead you should be wearing small patterns.

Vertical stripes will give you visual height while boxes and checks will give you visual heft. Both of these are your friends in helping your build appear larger than it is.

Here’s one last example from a recent GQ cover to show how all of this is done right.

Proportions are all good here. Small tie, small collar, small tie bar. The patterns are smaller too. Notice how the buttons on the vest end a lot higher than they do on most waistcoats. This makes his whole torso appear longer and gives him more visual height (it works on a vest instead of a jacket because it ends at his waist and doesn’t affect the proportions between his legs and torso where a higher button stance on a jacket would). Rolling the sleeves makes his arms look longer. Even his hair cut being short on the sides and tight all the way up elongates his face and gives him more visual height. There is nothing short or baggy about this look at all and it’s the perfect example of what to emulate if you’re a smaller man.

The last piece of advice I can offer is to look at the bright side. If you’re shorter you probably have a smaller shoe size – which means those killer Allen Edmonds won’t be sold out in your size when they go on sale. Same goes for that online deal to try to get rid of last season’s inventory from J Crew. By having fewer men to compete with in your size, you’re able to spend less money and look better.

PS. Did you know I do private style consultations? I can help you dress better according to your budget and your needs.

TopMan US

Clothing, Dressing the (___) Man confident style, how a short man can dress better, how a small man can dress better, Men's Style, menswear

Wednesday Weigh In: Double Breasted

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12 September, 2012

PS. Did you know I do private style consultations? I can help you dress better according to your budget and your needs.

Clothing casual double breasted jacket, casual neckwear, classic mens style, confident style, masculine neckerchief, Men's Style, menswear

More Late Summer Style

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11 September, 2012

Here’s another good example of some late-summer clothes.

The pants are hemmed a little high for my taste but it’s definitely a summer cut. Throw in the fact that they’re seersucker and he’s not wearing any socks and you have the summer aspect covered.

The fall aspect is primarily in the color. Green loafers and an olive-green jacket are usually too deep for a summer palette.

PS. Did you know I do private style consultations? I can help you dress better according to your budget and your needs.

Brooks Brothers

Clothing autumn, confident style, Men's Style, menswear

Black and Brown

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10 September, 2012

Got a question from a reader over the weekend.

I found your site from the mmsl article today. I’ve poked around a bit but didn’t see a post on a topic of interest to me and likely many of your readers: shoe color. I’ve seen men wear brown shoes with a navy suit and like the look but have never really felt comfortable doing it myself. I guess my question is does anything go with a navy suit or are there things to stay away from? A post with various pictures of good/bad combos would be great.

The short answer is yes – almost anything goes with a navy (or grey suit). The long answer is – it depends on what you’re trying to accomplish.

There are some men like myself and the vast majority of Italians who are of the opinion that black should only be worn in the most formal of events like at a funeral or with a tux. For the most part this is personal preference, however it is based on a style truth:

The darker the color the more formal its appearance

For dress shoes, this means the spectrum will go like this:

Black is more formal than chocolate-brown which is more formal than a lighter brown.

As the color gets lighter it becomes increasingly more casual.

Black

 

Here’s a good example of a navy suit with black shoes. Even with the brighter colors in the shirt, tie, and pocket square, the black of the shoes anchors the navy of the suit and makes it appear darker. This gives a more serious appearance to his overall look (which is impressive given how loud and patterned his other articles are). If you do decide to go the route of black shoes, you don’t want black socks. The only time you will ever want black socks are with a black suit and only a man with a stark contrast should be wearing one of these before dark. Instead, you will want your socks to either match the color of your suit (navy with navy, grey with grey, etc.), work as a transition between your shoes and suit (charcoal socks with a grey suit), or work with something else you have on (red socks with a pocket square that has red piping).

Chocolate Brown

 The chocolate shoes help lighten things up a bit but still keep this appropriate for more formal situations. This man would look great walking into a wedding or a boardroom. That being said, he could ditch the tie and be more comfortable in an airport lounge or club than he would be had he been wearing black shoes. Socks still follow the same guidelines as above but allow for more transitional colors too. He could opt for tan or cream socks to dress this down a bit more.

Walnut/Cognac

This is lighter configuration is going to make things appear more casual overall. A lighter shade of brown is going to be more youthful and a bit more fashion forward.  It’s also the color that will grab the most attention. So if you’re a bit of a peacock, these are the shoes for you. Sock coloring works the same here as with the chocolate shoes.

The beauty of both navy and grey suits is their versatility. You can wear the same suit/shirt/tie combo with three different colors of shoes and have an entirely different look for all three. So follow the rule of darker being more formal and you’ll be able to get more use out of your greys and blues.

PS. Did you know I do private style consultations? I can help you dress better according to your budget and your needs.

 

Clothing classic mens style, confident style, how to wear black shoes with a navy suit, how to wear brown shoes with a navy suit, Men's Style, menswear

Casual Friday: Warm

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7 September, 2012

Like:

  • The coloring. There is such a thing as a warm blue and this sweater is proof. If you have a warm complexion, you can still wear blue and should look for it in shades similar to this.
  • The shoes/socks. Great for fall because the socks are a heavy wool and the shoes are more substantial than summer slip-ons without being actual boots.
  • The pants. Perfect autumn texture and color. The fit looks spot on too.
  • The belt. Fall colors are more associated with the old tradition of country clothes. So, having a canvas belt in those same colors with club symbols on them is a subtle but direct nod to the sartorial history of this whole outfit.
  • The plaid shirt. More warm colors for a warm complexion and provide a bit of pattern contrast instead of just texture.

Fence:

  • The glasses. I like the shape but the frames need to be more substantial to be consistent with the country-vibe of the rest of his outfit.
  • Random sword?

Don’t like:

  • Nothing. This is one of the better casual ensembles I’ve seen.

PS. Did you know I do private style consultations? I can help you dress better according to your budget and your needs.

 

Clothing autumn layering, classic mens style, confident style, fall, Men's Style, menswear

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